"Win Her Back Using the 11 Unstoppable Attraction Dials"

It's important to figure out what attracted your girlfriend to you in the first place. Solving this problem is key because you've already attracted her to you before, so you can do it again. At the end of this article you're going to know exactly what she found attractive in you. That way you've got your step-by-step roadmap to getting her back.

What males and females find attractive in the opposite sex is very different, as I'm sure you know. First let's talk about us dudes, so you can then have a better perspective on women.

What Men Find Attractive in Women

What we men find attractive can be summed up as reproductive ability. This comes from our evolution and is pre-programmed in us. The most attractive women are those who are the most fertile. This means:

1. A waist-hip ratio of 70%, which happens to be best suited for nurturing the developing fetus.
   
   
2. A youthful-looking face and body (e.g., unwrinkled and hair not going gray).
   
   
3. Sufficiently large breasts that are also firm and non-sagging.

If a woman has all these traits, you'll have to work hard to resist feeling attracted to her.

By the way, notice what is not on the list of what men find attractive in women? That's right: her personality. If you met a hot babe who then proceeded to be cruel to you or had a gross bodily function right in front of you, you would then (I hope!) lose attraction for her. However, while a bad personality could cause you to reject a woman, a good personality in a woman is not at all enough to make you attracted to her. In fact, even though a woman must have a good personality to keep a man in a relationship with her, it's almost irrelevant when it comes to his physical attraction for her.

For women, though, the story is way different...

What Women Find Attractive in Men

By contrast, from an evolutionary and biological point of view, there's little need for a woman to be attracted to a youthful man. This is because men are capable of impregnating women almost no matter how old they are. (In August 2007 the Associated Press reported a man in India fathered his 21st child at age 90!)

I don't want to get too deep into theory, because this manual is based on what works in the real world and is meant to be a practical guide for you, but basically it comes down to this. Humans have evolved for at least the last 700,000 years with women looking for men who can provide two basic things:

1. Good genes.
   
   
2. The ability to provide for and protect her and her offspring.

Your ancestors tended to be men who provided either one or a combination of those two requirements.

Now, because women were not able to see a potential mate's DNA, nor did they possess a crystal ball to see whether he'd be able to protect her and her children, they instead evolved to base their attraction on visible indicators of those two things.

Through two and a half decades of intense scientific study and real-world practice and experimentation, I've found that there are 11 separate traits that women find attractive in men, which not only are visible indicators of one or both of the evolutionary requirements I listed above, but also have been thoroughly tested "in the field."

For purposes of simplicity, I call them the 11 Attraction Dials. Think of a dimmer switch, which is a dial that turns on a light and amplifies its brightness. Women have Attraction Dials that you can turn to amp up their desire for you. The more you turn them, the higher her desire. It's a simple formula.

These 11 Attraction Dials are genetically programmed into a woman's brain, because they demonstrate you have good genes and/or would be able to protect her and her offspring. All 11 Attraction Dials are irresistibly masculine features, just as from your perspective the women described in the previous section are irresistibly feminine.

Here are the 11 Attraction Dials with a brief explanation for each:

1. Being a Leader -- You talk and others (especially other men) listen.
2. Masculine Good Looks -- Women use the word "cute," "handsome," or even "hot" to describe you. They compliment you on various aspects of how you're put together such as "nice shirt!".
3. Physical Health and Strength -- You're in shape.
4. Confidence -- You move through life with self-assurance, without fear of others judging you.
5. Being Happy and Non-Needy -- You have no need to pressure the woman or to try to control her behavior.
6. Having Other Women Interested in You -- If a woman knows she's got competition to win you, then you look that much more appealing in her eyes.
7. Being Popular -- You have a large social network.
8. Being Interesting, Intriguing, Fun and a Captivating -- You bring a huge relief to a woman's boring life.
9. Being Assertive -- You can protect those around you.
10. Making Her Laugh -- If a woman is laughing at what you say, it is psychologically impossible for her to dislike you.
11. Having Drive -- You're ambitious and have passions you're pursuing.

When you first started dating your ex, you would have turned a few of these dials to some extent; otherwise she never would have become attracted to you.

Question: When you first met your woman and started dating her, you were doing something right, otherwise she never would have been attracted to you in the first place. Which of the above Attraction Dials explain how she first became attracted to you? I bet you did at least 2 of them, though probably not all of them. Write down all that apply.